I keep offending people.
I managed to offend someone today coz I never heard about International Women’s day, and when it was raised, I then asked whether there was an International Men’s day.
Some thought it was a joke and in poor tastes, but I was genuinely surprised it was a thing and asked because I was curious.
What was beautiful about it was, the person who was really offended, spoke to me about it calmly and gently- which I of course apologized. She heard about my lack of awareness, which helped, and I asked about this day, so I learned what it meant. This is conflict management done really well, which I really appreciate. This person could just remain upset, and let the anger grow in resentment, or get very aggressive and upset- both of which I have witnessed and been on the receiving end- which isn’t great.
So I am thankful for this learning opportunity.
I’m still angry with myself that I offend people - more recently. Despite being in Australia for 7 years, there are nuances of the culture which I have not picked up, sadly.
Oh well, it’s never too late to learn. Hopefully
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